"Mom, you're not going to be upset, are you?" Boone said they could have brunch with her and his dad, and later in the day, they could come to his Bio Mom's for Thanksgiving.
He knew how she loved decorating her two-story home in Lincoln for the holidays. She loved to have a Martha Stewart kind of Thanksgiving where everything was perfect. Perhaps a little too perfect. She expected guests to be dressed up.
"Who said anything about brunch?"
Boone was puzzled by her response. True, it was getting harder these days to do everything with family. Even his adopted sister Oakley would be busy with a concert, but she could make it by six in the evening.
"I guess...I just thought..." Boone was even-lipped about the assumption then. It was going to be a casual affair at his real mother's place. He was planning to help Joe cook dinner. Besides, his kids were coming, even if they were just his niece and nephew and their families.
"It'll be great to not have to stress over Thanksgiving," she sighed, as if she didn't want to admit how frustrated she was with his dad these days, who didn't want to do anything.
"Yeah, I was hoping you'd say that. You don't think Dad will come, do you?" He looked at her blankly.
"I'm sure he wants to see you guys, but you know he doesn't like being around Tammy." She shrugged.
"Are you sure that's all it is?" Boone wondered what was really happening.
"He does have a way of giving me the silent treatment. Little things do make him mad. Especially, his health." She told him they'd recently found out about his congestive heart failure. "He needs to keep moving, but he'd rather sit and stew about it."
"I wish you had told me about it," Boone said.
"But you were getting married. He didn't want me to tell anyone." His adopted mother looked sad as if she had a lot to put up with that he didn't know.
"Do you want me to talk to him?"
"No."
She hugged herself hard and said she'd try to get him to come to Thanksgiving.

ReplyDeleteBoone is having a tough time, but he's trying his best.
Family Thanksgiving are never without stress, I think people over due with decorating, food prep, and thinking like they have to invite everyone. 99% of the time they cause themselves to be too stressed to enjoy it. I think families would enjoy each other more if they just relaxed a bit and didn't feel like the house had to look like Martha Steward and her large staff had been there. Ours have gotten too big, and I really don't look forward to them. 25 ish, lots of kids who don't seem to know about inside vs outside voices and too many animals underfoot. I'm not sure why people feel like they need to bring their animals. Luckily, I have the smallest house so I get out of hosting. Poor Boone, trying to juggle mixed families and your side vs her side etc. Never easy.
ReplyDeleteWe have it now that it's at nobody's house. Someone in the family lives and works at an apartment complex so we go to their club house and it's already decorated. It has a nice kitchen and plenty of space. Of course, lots of photo opps for Christmas photos. I'm glad we are doing it there again this year. It's safe for our great grandmother to come in her wheelchair from where she is staying these days.
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ReplyDeleteNão se estressar nestes encontros comemorativos é difícil, mas se cada um fizer sua parte e se esforçar para isso os momentos juntos ficarão agradáveis.
ReplyDeleteBeijos nas bochechas! 😘
Not stressing out in these commemorative gatherings is difficult, but if each one does their part and makes an effort to do so, the moments together will be enjoyable.
DeleteKisses on the cheeks! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️Thank you so much for your comment!
Ojala lo convezca. te mando un beso.
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